When you look into the mirror sometimes have you ever stop to ponder “who is that looking back at you”? Do you think you’ve ever missed out on an opportunity to move forward or find a new experience because you didn’t have enough belief in yourself to know that you could do it? Like breaking into a sweat and becoming a mess at a job interview or social event. Or even forgetting the answer to some simple questions and it’s not even a “senior moment”.
Building your self-esteem can be one of the most important personal tasks we face and one of the most difficult. Here are 3 tips to help you overcome some of those challenges.
Tip #1 - Don’t depend on others to advise you on your self-worth. There will always be external opinions or circumstances that challenge your self-belief. A huge number of people out there like to maintain there own status or perceived worth by keeping others down and consequently you are in their aim of fire. Those who handle this best have an “unshakable” self belief and work at it daily. Self talk or that little voice inside can be a huge factor. Program it the way you want it speak to you and then listen.
Tip #2 – Find a focus or purpose for your activities. By having a distinct purpose, you will find the you will become decisive and see that step-by-step you can make positive changes toward your goals, i.e. health, wealth, spiritual and emotional wellness. I have found that listening to a short YouTube video that I’ve selected to do some morning programming about my spirituality and positive thinking helps me start the day and continue with a purpose and goals for my day. I’ve put it on my daily Google calendar and so it is there as a daily task and even available on my smart-phone.
Tip #3 – Focus your efforts on helping others achieve their goals and find a better self in their own lives. When lose your life in service to others, you are rewarded in so many other ways and you find that your own daily challenges and tasks take a back seat to helping others. It’s been said by many successful people in business that if you help enough people get what they want, you will do very well in life.
Remember that you are the determining factor in making those changes in your life. No one else can have the impact on your happiness, your health and wellness as you and more importantly…”it’s never too late”. John













